Counsellor & Life Coach
Louise Bourne
How to feel better *Blog
When you make positive change in your own life,
the lives around you are affected by that change.
Taking responsibility for yourself, for your own emotions,
choices & actions will free you up,
so will dropping the care of what people think of you!
If you have been playing the blame game,
you have been making yourself a victim & giving your power away.
Blaming is popular, it is also limiting & potentially stifling.
It cuts us off from our wisdom & keeps us feeling weak & powerless.
It gives others the power by making them responsible for how we feel...
& no body else is responsible for how we feel, not really.
The choice & the power to manage our emotions is ours, really,
& I don't mean suppress or block yourself off & hide behind a facade,
bring yourself to the situation & find more genuine ways to relate.
A lot of couples, or families are strangers living in the same house.
When do soul mates become cell mates?
Once you are no longer fixed in some idea & belief of how things
& people are supposed to be, you liberate yourself,
no longer a victim of circumstance.
As long as you make others' responsible for your feelings, you're like a puppet,
allowing other people to pull your strings.
That's not authentic living my friend, it does not feed the soul.
It is never too late to make a new plan & shift toward making a better life
or making the life we have a little better, even in the simplest & smallest of ways.
There are many 'ordinary' people in this world, doing extraordinary things.
...& who knows, the problems we face today,
may well hold within them, our richest opportunities for the best tomorrow.
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